Dr. Asiya Staff asked 2 weeks ago
I am 13 years married 3 kidshusband is job holder I am also teacher husband does not care' he doesn't pay attention of kids and home..he bears some expenditures as rent of home very few grocery...etc but all other I am to bear he never spends on me I bear my own expenses ..he comes home and remain busy in cell when he has time he calls to his family .he scolds teases taunts me he always said he is right and wife is wrong he makes stories against me and tells his family .I am stuck now I remain silent .now I try myself to keep quiet when he is at home because abusive behavior affects childern ..I try myself to keep him happy but he has always any issue .now I am stuck ..my health is being affected by his behavior .he never listens me he always orders .if I could not implement he becomes furious...now I am stuck in a situation...what I should do ..I don't want separation because he will never leave kids and kids will be victim ...what I should do Please guide me
1 Answers
Dr. Asiya Staff answered 2 weeks ago
Yes, exactly such a situation develops. The man understands how to utilize women, and as poor women find themselves stuck with children, they start taking on all the responsibilities too. They know how to squeeze more out of them—it is exactly like that. May Allah make things easy for you.
For women like you, we have launched a course called 'Marriage Reset,' which is starting on December 11th. Please do join this course. There are many things that cause us to become victims ourselves. What is it they say? 'Some people were cruel, and some of us also had a desire to die.' These things also play a role. When we set our boundaries, others begin to understand them too.
These matters cannot be understood in just one or two sentences. It's not about what is right and what is wrong; it is also about skill building. Furthermore, there must also be the skill to accept things after enduring and tolerating a lot. I think our 'Marriage Reset' is for you.
Please login or Register to submit your answer
