Dr. Asiya Staff asked 2 weeks ago
My husband moved to Saudi Arabia a month ago, and I am currently staying with my parents. I occasionally visit my in-laws (my mother-in-law and sister-in-law), but they have no concept of privacy. In my absence, they use my room, wardrobe, perfumes, bags, and all my personal belongings without permission. They often finish my perfumes and even damage my things through constant use. Due to my reserved nature, I find it difficult to speak up. It is deeply upsetting to me that they treat my personal possessions as if they are entirely their own. What should I do?
1 Answers
Dr. Asiya Staff answered 2 weeks ago
Your husband has moved to Saudi Arabia and you are living with your parents, while occasionally visiting your in-laws. However, your mother-in-law and sister-in-law use your things—your perfumes, bags, and everything else—without your permission. You feel very annoyed but your nature prevents you from saying anything. So, what should you do? Change your nature! Create 'red lines' (boundaries) for yourself. Do one thing: change the locks of your cupboard and your room door, and keep the keys with you. These are your belongings. If anyone objects, simply say it's for safety since workers or outsiders might come and go. Also, tell your husband to ask them that if they need anything, they should ask you directly.
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