Hamza Farooq asked 2 months ago
Assalamualaikum, live with my wife and newly born child, plan to rent one house with two portions to care for him while maintaining the privacy of my family both in split Portions of that house. But my wife, insists on full separation. I fear accountability on the Day of Judgment for my father's or my wifes rights. Please quide., unable to understand and being negative about my family despite no interference, weak and is attached to me, while my father and unmarried brother live separately and I bear both households expenses As my father is growing old
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Dr. Asiya Staff answered 2 weeks ago
This question of yours came to me in the flow. You had previously mentioned that you wanted to keep your brother and father in a separate portion, but your wife is not agreeable to this. And after a few questions, you mentioned that she was living at her parents' house and issues arose there. Now that the financial problems have been solved, your wife wants a separate house. What is it that makes your wife unwilling to live in the same house in a separate portion with her father-in-law and brother-in-law? You said that she doesn't even consider you her husband, and so on.
When a person enters into a relationship after nikah (marriage), they don't manipulate the other person. You will have to accept, which you are refusing to, that she is a 'devil' (a person causing trouble). If you don't accept this, then recognize the difficulties and arrange a session with your wife with me. Then I will put some things before you. After that, we will settle some things between ourselves. Generally, everything will be fine; no one should be given pain or distress.
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