Dr. Asiya Staff asked 2 months ago
How can I overcome my people pleasing nature? I know it is disturbing me mentally and physically but unable to overcome it. Though I have a baby and pregnant again but I do prioritize doing all chores or prefer my in-laws over her. Despite of being an educated girl I am more becoming aggressive mother who just want to be according to others.
1 Answers
Dr. Asiya Staff answered 2 months ago
Absolutely, in the pursuit of pleasing people, you get exhausted. Boundary setting is very important. The whole of Emotional Intelligence is based on boundary settings. (Do your counselling/self-reflection.)
Let me tell you the right thing: establish a relationship with the Holy Quran; it gives you confidence regarding the realities of life. Also, repeatedly plan how much time you have to give to others. Aside from that time, you must leave the scope/concerns of others right there (outside). When you come inside your room to your children, you should have a system.
Discipline to accept boundaries and working gets easy. Discipline itself makes you confident.
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