Dr. Asiya Staff asked 4 weeks ago
I am getting married next month. I am very depressed (sad/low). I don’t know why, but sometimes I feel immense happiness, and other times I am very depressed. I have a lot of tension (anxiety/worry) about how I will adjust (settle in/adapt). I can’t figure out who is genuinely (with all their heart) with me and who is just fulfilling a formality (going through the motions). I can’t tell the difference. Sometimes I feel very good when I meet my in-laws, but sometimes I feel very depressed.
1 Answers
Dr. Asiya Staff answered 4 weeks ago
"Your wedding is next month and you're very worried. Sometimes you're very happy, and sometimes you feel like you're just going through the motions of obeying Allah, and you don't understand what you should do. You're very worried about how you will adjust.
Learn to be happy in the present moment. What they say is that we should only focus on the past to learn from its mistakes, and since no one knows the future, do your best in the moment you are in. Please remember this! It's natural to feel worried when a wedding is about to happen.
Whatever is happening, it is happening for the best. Enjoy the moment, eat well, take care of your health and skin, and think positive.
Insha'Allah (God willing) everything will be great. Remember Allah; make sure no sin is committed during this happy occasion. May Allah be your protector and helper. Recite Dua-e-Istikhara with every prayer."
It's clear you have a strong support system and a lot of wisdom guiding you. Remember to be kind to yourself during this exciting but stressful time.
Learn to be happy in the present moment. What they say is that we should only focus on the past to learn from its mistakes, and since no one knows the future, do your best in the moment you are in. Please remember this! It's natural to feel worried when a wedding is about to happen.
Whatever is happening, it is happening for the best. Enjoy the moment, eat well, take care of your health and skin, and think positive.
Insha'Allah (God willing) everything will be great. Remember Allah; make sure no sin is committed during this happy occasion. May Allah be your protector and helper. Recite Dua-e-Istikhara with every prayer."
It's clear you have a strong support system and a lot of wisdom guiding you. Remember to be kind to yourself during this exciting but stressful time.
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